Paul Anthony Gardner was born on December 27, 1960, in Brooklyn, New York, to the late Paul D. McKinney and the late Shirley Ann Norris . He received his education in the Spartanburg County School District and graduated from Chesnee High School, where he was known for his athleticism, especially on the basketball court.

Paul was a man of humor and heart. Known for his quick wit and infectious laughter he had a special gift for making others smile. He never met a stranger and was beloved for his generous spirit and unwavering love for his family. Light blue was his favorite color. He was a faithful member of Brooklyn CME Church.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Shirley Ann Norris and Paul D. McKinney.

Paul leaves behind a legacy of love and laughter that will live on in the hearts of those who knew him including his wife, Sheila Gardner of Chesnee, SC; sons, Brandon Gardner of Duncan, SC and Tarrell O'Fair; daughters, Brittany (Connor) Williams of Inman SC and  Alex (Shalamar) Lyles-Dawkins of Chesnee, SC; step father Raymond Joe Norris; grandchildren, Tyran O'Fair, Cole O'Fair, Micah Williams, Myah Williams, Mylo Williams, and Virie O'Fair; as well as a host of other relatives and dear friends.

On June 5, 2025, Paul peacefully transitioned at his home. He will be deeply missed yet forever remembered.